Challenging misconceptions and increasing awareness.

I’ve created this site to address the stigma and stereotypes surrounding natural childbirth. It’s important to me to challenge the beliefs that natural birth is always best for both mother and child. I’ve personally experienced lifelong and permanent injuries from childbirth, which have significantly impacted my ability to lead a normal life. For over nine years, I’ve struggled with everyday tasks and enjoying time with my children due to these injuries. I feel betrayed by the lack of information and guidance regarding the potential health consequences of natural childbirth.

Through this platform, I aim to raise awareness about the devastating effects childbirth can have and to dispel the misconception that recovery is quicker with natural birth than with a cesarean section. It’s time to have open conversations about this issue and work towards preventing these injuries from happening to others.

Unfortunately, this topic has been overlooked by medical professionals and even by other women. Many times, I’ve been told to just accept my situation and not speak out about it because it’s deemed as unpleasant, unnecessary or horrible. But why should my story be considered unworthy of discussion and support? It’s essential that we break the silence, listen to each other’s experiences, and provide support to those who have been affected by childbirth injuries. I certainly wish I had been informed about the potential injuries I might sustain.


It’s true that there has been a significant increase in awareness of pelvic floor dysfunction in recent years, which is undoubtedly a positive progress. However, despite this progress, many individuals still face challenges in accessing comprehensive information and resources, particularly concerning specific conditions like levator ani avulsions.

Research indeed indicates that a substantial number of women experience pelvic organ prolapse following childbirth. Yet, there remains a notable gap in discussions surrounding muscle tears and permanent damage to the anatomical structures responsible for supporting the pelvic organs.

Addressing this gap through education is vital. By providing comprehensive training for midwives and doctors, as well as educating future mothers, we can ensure that individuals have access to the support and guidance necessary to effectively manage pelvic floor health. Raising awareness and advocating for greater attention to conditions like levator ani avulsions are essential steps in improving understanding, prevention, and treatment options for all individuals affected by pelvic floor dysfunction.